The other day, I wrote a post titled “Prepare for Success“. In it I asked, “So, have you gotten the revelation, yet, to prepare for success?” I then went on to talk about revelation – the “ah-ha” moment you need to have concerning preparing for success.
Next, I wrote about a different aspect of that question, that of expectancy. I asked, “Are you expecting to succeed?” And we talked about the power of expectation.
Finally, I want to address the most obvious aspect of Preparing for Success — the preparation part. This could easily grow into a book chapter (or more), but I don’t have space for that here, so I will try to keep it succinct… and touch on this aspect more in future posts… or books.
The first thing I feel compelled to state is that, yes, you do have to prepare for success. Success doesn’t just happen by itself. And in this, I am talking about something different than the things you do to succeed. I am talking about the preparations you need to make for when success occurs. (By the way, I was about to use the word “happens” instead of “occurs” but we both know (don’t we?) that success doesn’t “happen”, but is the result of a lot of effort and planning.)
We might use the analogy of houseguests that you have invited. If you don’t prepare for them before they show up, they won’t stay long… and the visit won’t be that enjoyable.
“Sorry, I don’t have anything to feed you. I just have enough for myself. You don’t mind, do you? Oh, and I didn’t get around to getting anything for you to sleep on, but, hey, they say that “firm” is good for the back, so you won’t mind sleeping on the floor would you? Speaking of the floor, you might want to vacuum before you do, though…. But, I’m sure glad you came. It’s good to see you.”
If this is you, remind me not to come stay with you.
If you don’t prepare for success, it will either:
1) come along and catch you unprepared (squandering your efforts)
OR
2) never actually arrive (sometimes the preparations are a crucial part of the set-up for success.)
For point 2, I actually know a couple who flew into town to visit friends. Those friends were supposed to pick them up at the airport. Except that the friends forgot. Couple calls them after waiting around a while, looking for their ride. “Sorry, we forgot. Could you take a shuttle or cab out here to our house?” Couple got back on the next plane and went home.
I see too many people dreaming about success… maybe even working toward it… but giving no thought to what it will take to sustain it if it happens. They aren’t prepared for success.
So, in your efforts to succeed, by all means, spend most of your time planning how you will succeed (and carrying out the plan). But include a little time to address how you will sustain that success once it happens… in other words, Prepare To Succeed.
So how are you planning to succeed… or not? Use the comments and share your story with us.